Hello, friends. I hope you’ve all had a lovely holiday.
They always say the New Years is a time of reinventing yourself, and I full heartedly agree with that! It has become the butt of every basic girl joke. Hashtag new year, new me! As they post an Instagram photo that has clearly been filtered and which will be followed by a bunch of snapchats of them puking in the toilet because they’ve embraced the new year a little too hard and couldn’t keep it all down. We’ve all been there, right?
No no, just kidding. All of the “New Years, New Me’s” are perfectly fine young ladies. And more power to them! Everyone deserves a chance to start over, and what better time to do that than at the beginning of a new year? Everyone has the power to change who they are; to be better, do better, reach out to those they hurt and start working on better relationships and friendships.
For me, in 2018 I swore I would get my mental health under control, and I followed through with that goal. I didn’t set too many for 2018. Just one. Get it together. Now, as 2019 rolls around, I am once again presented with an opportunity to make it a great year. What goals do I have in mind for 2019? Now that I have my mind straight, I would like to get my finances straight too. The wheels for this goal started rolling in 2018, but 2019 I will really try and focus on achieving the career goals I want. That means applying to graduate school. That means stepping into a leadership position and learning to manage groups of people. The old me would have told myself that these things were unachievable. The new me knows that if I work hard and stay focused on what’s important, I will be able to accomplish all of these goals.
What goals have you set for 2019? Whatever they are, I hope that you follow through with them and manifest the life that you want. You do have the power within you!
Hey there, friends!
I’d like to share with you a little Yule ritual my sister and I performed a few nights ago. We wanted to have a fire, but it was raining as it so often is in Pittsburgh. So instead we lit a candle to serve as our bonfire.
The purpose of the ritual was to set our intentions for the new year ahead. We made a list of positive affirmations, wishes, and desires for 2019.
On my list I had things like:
Fearlessly embrace love
Grow my blog
Use my voice and set boundaries
Buy a new car
After creating the list, we meditated and visualized what we wanted to manifest. This was a very emotionally charged experience, in a good way. I was in a good mood to begin with, and focusing on the person I wanted to become made me that much happier.
When we were finished visualizing and meditating on our lists, we burned them in the candle flame and gathered the ashes in a pot. Mine burned quickly so my sister said I must have had very good energy and that my intentions would surely come true in the new year.
We took the ashes outside and sprinkled them into the wind. I watched as my wishes and affirmations blew away into the universe with a beautiful moon looking on.
I wish you all a very prosperous and productive 2019. May all your dreams come true and may your loved ones be happy and healthy.
Take care, and don’t forget to take your medications!
This has by far been the most transformative year of my life. I feel like the wall between who I was and who I want to be was finally smashed into dust. It was painful, yes, but I have come so far. There is no doubt that I am a different person. One who is handling her mental health, one who is putting work into her passions and what is important to her, and one who is working to build a life after her paralyzing depression. I’ve learned some valuable lessons this year in the process. Below is a list of some life advice I’ve acquired through gaining experience and leveling up. 2018 has been a tough level. It has been an underwater level. But 2019 is going to rock. So what did I learn?
- You are responsible for your own happiness. You won’t find it in someone else until you’ve found it within yourself first.
- Communicating really does solve a lot of things. No one likes communicating the icky things that can hurt feelings, but avoiding them will make them much worse.
- If someone wants to leave your life, let them go.
- Pain only lasts as long as you hold onto it.
- Therapy helps. A lot. And a surprising amount of people do it.
- Keep working on your passions. At the end of the day, those are the things that matter most.
- It is very possible to fake it until you become it.
- Wishing won’t do anything if you don’t take the action to make it real.
- Have fun! None of the drama will matter in six months.
- You are completely capable of creating the life you want to live and having everything you want. You just gotta do it.
Did you learn anything new this year? About life? About yourself? Share your thoughts!
As always, take care, and don’t forget to take your medications.
As this year comes to a close, it is a perfect opportunity to look back at the progess we’ve all made and the things we have created. I have gone back through my blog and reread all of my posts. I am still in disbelief that I have been able to stick with it for so long! I’ve amassed over 62k words just in ten short months of blogging here at Antiquarius. Below is what I feel are some of my best posts. Some of the newer followers here may have missed some of these older posts.
Please give them a visit if they spark your interest!
If you have any posts you’d like to share from your own blog during the year of 2018, link them down below!
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Take care, and don’t forget to take your medications!
To all the business start ups out there who may be feeling like their stuff can’t compete with the professionals, just remember that everyone started somewhere! I know it sounds so cliché, but if you believe in yourself and your dream, you can be just as good someday. Just make sure that you are taking steps to reach that Everest of yours, even if they are baby steps. Each day we learn something new about blogging, about entrepreneurship, about leadership, about working on our crafts. Think how far you’ve come already, and never forget why you started. You can do it! Keep going!
I have been consistently blogging here at Antiquarius for nine months, and in that time I have learned so much about blogging and producing good content. There are tips and tricks that really do help bloggers get that polished looking blog, and slowly I am learning how to do it right.
One of the best resources I can recommend for bloggers is Canva. It’s an app that you can download on your phone to create high quality graphics like the one above. The templates are endless and specifically organized by social media sites and purposes. Best of all is that Canva is free to download, and as long as you use your own original pictures, is free to use as well!
I am excited to see where my blog will go in the coming year. I know a lot of bloggers keep track of blog goals, and so I have decided to do the same, in hopes that it will motivate me even more! And maybe these can inspire you to make your own blog goals if you don’t already have a nice little list.
By this time next year, I would like to:
- Reach 500 Followers
- Have roughly 100 active readers
- Post 2 times a week
- Buy a self-hosted domain
- Do a collab post!
- Get 1 sponsor
After doing some research, it seems that WordPress AdSense doesn’t generate much of a profit, so I’m really going to try for a sponsorship through a smaller company, as one of my long-term goals for my blog is to use it as a second income. I also want to use my blog as a platform to promote my self published books that I will be releasing once I have enough followers and those interested in my writing style.
I will say this too: Blogging isn’t as easy as I thought it would be, but it’s no less rewarding. Writing the posts, taking pictures, and interacting with other bloggers is a time consuming hobby, but I love every second of it. I still have a ton to learn about blogging, but I am so glad I started on this journey eight months ago.
Are you a new blogger? Let’s connect! Do you have any suggestions for a new blogger just starting out? Leave your thoughts down below.
Take care and don’t forget to take your medications!